Archive for May, 2008

Taboo Weekend

May 26, 2008

When I arrived at Brian’s place on Saturday, I knew I’d be busy for the weekend. So much to catch up with friends, and so many things planned. We went to Blitzone to hang out with the guys, and yes, Brian went to play COD4. What else could he do?

Luckily Too bad, Phyo had a bad headache, so we went to the mamak nearby, and.. weirdly enough, TALKED SCIENCE. We found out we were COOL NERDS~ (he’s just comforting himself). Soon, one by one, the boys came over and everyone had fun.. This is already like.. 3am in the morning.. Then, someone decided to KIDNAP Amanda and we all ended up in McD’s!

After a lot of talking crap and McD’s breakfast, we left for home after my very clumsy but still loveble boyfriend spilled tea on himself. This is 5.30am. Imagine the amount of crap and McD’s breakfast we had!

Sleeping at 6am, and waking up at 8am was not fun.. But we had to get ready for paintball. Sadly, I missed playing this round because of monetary problems. I AM OFFICIALLY BROKE! I’m now living with 5 bucks in my wallet.. which I know is going to be spent tonight on drinks with the boys. And we’re only talking about MAMAK DRINKS!

Watching everyone playing paintball, except for their girlfriends of course, was torture. HAHA! But seriously, my fingers itched for the trigger. Then, the ESP team 3 people, came over to support, and they played TABOO, a board game which is like word charades. Except that you describe the word, using words of your own, without using the words listed on the card. IT WAS AWESOMELY FUN!

I got hooked on it, and didn’t watch the paintball matches after that. We left for food, and then for more games at Soya’s house. I thought I was going to join the boys for dinner after they finished paintball, but time flew by when we played GUESSTURES. Now, this is a cool game. There’s a board where you can put 4 cards into the slots, and as the timer runs, one by one, the card drops down. You’re supposed to act the word out, and grab the card before it falls. And USUALLY, the card falls right after someone guessed the answer. VERY FRUSTRATING, but really really fun~

I have a lot of pictures, but all of them are in facebook. Photos will be uploaded when I get them, and yeah, stay tuned, because KL is fun with crazy friends like them.

How to get that guy to notice you

May 22, 2008

I found the most interesting article online. Well, for those of you who wants to flirt but not look like “You’re in heat”, have fun reading~ I actually do most of these moves.. and they work! So, have fun trying. :D

 

 

Flirting for Women

 

How to Flirt and Not Look like you are in Heat! Women are so much more subtle about flirting clues that men need to really pay attention. Ladies, men are not used to women flirting with them. An overwhelming majority of men said they would just love it if a woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you were interested in checking them out.

 

Lesson #1: Repeated contact…at least three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he’s going to look around and make sure it’s really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it’s him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he’ll probably walk by you and at least smile..he’s checking you out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch.

 

Lesson #2: Whisper…it always gets their attention. Ask them if you can tell them a secret…Then whisper in their ear: “I just love your tie…can I buy it from you when you are done with it?”

 

Lesson #3: Don’t sit with other women…men don’t want you to reject them in front of an audience. If you do go out with a friend…separate every so often or take a breather from talking…men do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn’t want to interrupt.)

 

Lesson #4: Treat men gently…If someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts …be nice….All the other men are watching to see what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or show visual disapproval..you are cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something like: “It was so nice of you to approach me…what’s your name? Tom? Tom, I know how hard it is to meet people…I might have a girlfriend who would be interested in you.”

 

Lesson #5: IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand him a copy of the men’s version of “Flirting with Greatness” and ask him to go practice on someone else. Firmly say that “lines” with sexual overtones are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in the world. If all else fails give men who need a tune up on flirting this phone # and I’ll take care of them for you. 216-521-5683 (521-Love)

 

Lesson #6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch to see who’s checking you out.

 

Lesson #7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg….wear higher heels…the redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make someone comment on them.

 

Lesson #8: Look over your shoulder…and smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you are interested.

 

Lesson #9: Give him a look all over from head to toe – nod with approval and then flash him your most winning smile.

 

Lesson #10: Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun NOW!